Social-emotional development

Social-emotional development

Social-emotional development

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Social Milestones: 0-12 Months - 😊 Smiles & Strangers

AgeMilestone
2 mo😊 Social Smile (responds to human face/voice)
3 moRecognizes familiar faces & objects
6 moStranger Anxiety begins; smiles at mirror image
7 moImitates simple sounds; enjoys mirror play
9 mo👋 Waves "bye-bye"; plays pat-a-cake
10 moPlays peek-a-boo; shows affection
12 moComes when called; imitates actions & gestures

High-Yield Fact: Stranger anxiety, starting around 6-7 months and peaking at 8-9 months, is a key indicator of developing attachment. Its absence past this age can be a red flag.

Social Milestones: 1-3 Years - 🧸 Parallel Play Party

Mildred Parten Newhall's 6 Stages of Play

AgeSocial & Emotional Milestone
15 mo- Begins to show empathy (e.g., hugs a crying sibling).
- Points to show interest.
18 mo- Engages in parallel play (plays alongside others, not with them).
- Imitates household chores (e.g., sweeping).
2 yrs- Copies adults and older children.
- Shows increasing independence and defiance.
3 yrs- Begins cooperative play & takes turns.
- Knows own name, age, and gender.
- Shows a wide range of emotions.

Social Milestones: 3-5 Years - 🤝 Making Friends

Focus shifts from parallel to cooperative, imaginative group activities. Children learn to share, take turns, and form friendships. Managing emotions in a social context is key.

AgeSocial & Emotional Milestones
3 yrs- Takes turns in games
- Shows affection for friends
- Understands "mine" & "his/hers"
4 yrs- Cooperates with other children
- Engages in fantasy/role-play (e.g., "Mom," "Dad")
- Prefers playing with others over playing alone
5 yrs- Wants to please & be like friends
- Agrees with rules
- Shows more independence

Cooperative play emerges around age 4, where children work towards a common goal (e.g., building a fort). This is a key shift from the parallel play of toddlers.

Abnormal Development - 🚩 Red Flag Alerts

  • Persistent poor eye contact or failure to respond to name.
  • Lack of interest in other children or imaginative play.

⭐ Any regression or loss of previously acquired language or social skills is a major alert for Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD).

High-Yield Points - ⚡ Biggest Takeaways

  • Social smile appears at 2 months, a key early milestone.
  • Stranger anxiety emerges around 6-8 months.
  • Separation anxiety begins at 9 months, peaking at 15-18 months.
  • Parallel play (playing alongside, not with) is characteristic of a 2-year-old.
  • Cooperative play and sharing begins around 3-4 years.
  • A firm sense of gender identity is typically established by 3 years.

Practice Questions: Social-emotional development

Test your understanding with these related questions

A mother brings her 4-year-old son to his pediatrician. Over the last eight months, her son has been exhibiting several "odd" behaviors. Most importantly, he repeatedly says that he is playing games with a friend named "Steven," though she is certain that he does not exist. She has often found him acting out magical scenarios as though someone else is present, when no one is there. What is the most likely diagnosis in this patient?

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Flashcards: Social-emotional development

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By what age range does a toddler engage in parallel play?_____

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By what age range does a toddler engage in parallel play?_____

24 - 36 months

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